From Learned Helplessness to Learned Joyfulness

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A while back, I watched an episode of Our America where Lisa Ling was exploring the world of underaged prostitution. The eleven- to sixteen-year-old girls were mostly runaways who were “rescued” from the streets and then sent out to turn tricks by men who, for all intents and purposes, held them hostage. When some of the girls tried to leave, they were beaten and intimidated, to the point that they never tried it again. Naturally, this was terrible to see. But with my mind never being far from dogs, I also started thinking about dogs who develop that same attitude of learned helplessness.

Many dogs come into the world with an open and trusting attitude, only to have an experience or series of experiences that cause them to become suspicious of people. Maybe someone is heavy-handed when doling out punishment; or, perhaps the owner is unpredictable from the dog’s point of view, and lashes out in anger. The dog becomes wary of the owner, and develops a fear of doing the wrong thing. The dog is now afraid to offer any sort of behavior, or even to respond when asked to do something, for fear that their repsonse will be wrong and they’ll be punished. When we adopted Sierra from the shelter, she demonstrated some disturbing behavior during our first training sessions. Although my hand signal for “stay” was small and gentle, when I put my hand up, her ears went back and her eyes got squinty. She wouldn’t move. In short, she seemed afraid to do anything at all.

I had a client once who told me that their dog Ranger was very much afraid of her husband, but that when the husband had Ranger on leash, the dog was very calm. A brief observation of the relationship between the two, and seeing what happened when Ranger was leashed, told a different story. Ranger had learned that once that leash was on, there was nowhere to go. So he shut down. To the untrained eye, it’s easy to see how a dog might appear calm, when in reality the dog is simply resigned that there’s no way out.

A friend who is also an excellent trainer told me about a workshop she attended. It was an e-collar (shock collar) seminar, and to her credit, although she doesn’t use e-collars, she wanted to understand more about where trainers who use them are coming from. She had heard many people rave about how this particular presenter was able to get dogs who were wild and crazy to behave in no time. Unfortunately, it was just as she’d suspected; the dogs appeared “improved” or “calm” alright, but that’s because they were afraid to do anything for fear of being shocked! There’s a definite difference between a dog whose body language says, “Okay, I get it, you don’t want me to do that” and still looks bright and happy, and one whose light has been extinguished. The latter is unutterably sad to witness.

So what can we do about dogs who already have a sense of learned helplessness? Well, we take it slow and don’t push them in training or in other areas of life. We learn to read and respect their body language. And, if you think about it, what’s the opposite of learned helplessness? Offering behaviors! How do we get dogs to offer behaviors? We teach them the principals of clicker training (with or without an actual clicker), which uses markers and rewards to encourage the dog to offer behaviors. I can tell you that Sierra has gone from a shut down, wary rescue dog to one who will happily offer spins, bows, and a number of other behaviors when she sees the Holy Treat Bag make an appearance.

Bottom line, there is most definitely hope for these dogs. We just need to be able to recognize the symptoms, and work with the behavior accordingly to change learned helplessness into learned joyfulness.

6 Responses to From Learned Helplessness to Learned Joyfulness

  1. Mel says:

    So agree. I did exactly this with my former puppy mill dog, Daisy. She is a much happier dog than she has ever been. She rarely shuts down now. Instead, she plays, seeks out people and seeks out attention. There is no greater joy than to see how far she has come.

  2. Rebecca Rice says:

    I too have a “spook” that has come a long way. What’s your thought on teaching dogs an initiator signal (a simple command that they use to let you know that they want interaction… in Katie’s case, it’s a nose touch to the hand)? I found that it really seemed to help with our interaction, as long as I respected her signal when she did NOT want to interact. Which was, I will admit, hard to do sometimes. Here’s a video of what I mean (homemade, so forgive the quality of it)

  3. Eileen says:

    Thank you for this blog, it is exactly what I have been thinking about but unable to articulate. I think it is why so many people fall for the electronic and prong collar training. They see the “good” “calm” part of the dog but don’t recognize the shut down part.

    I saw an episode of Pregnant in Heels where an expectant couple disagreed on how to raise their child. The mother wanted to be a “Tiger Mom” and concentrate on disipline, overseeing every move the child would make, etc. The father wanted the child to be able to be more expressive and have a say in what he or she did. They spoke with an adult woman who had been raised by tiger parents and she was highly successful. But when asked, she said she wished she had not been raised that way. When her business was in trouble she had nothing in herself to fall back on. This so reminded me of the difference between a clicker trained dog and a punishment trained dog.

    Thanks again for the great article.

  4. Wise words, great article! :o)

    I love the expression “holy treat bag”… which my doxies love too!

    Antje, Germany

  5. Beck says:

    Wow am I excited to find your blog! It’s great! I was reading the book “Learned Optimism: How to Change Your Mind and Your Life” by Martin E. Seligman, and he explains the studies that he did on learned helplessness… guess what animal he used to prove his theories on learned helplessness? Dogs. Guess who got rehabilitated after the study? The dogs. I was so excited when I read this book because it’s dog who proved that learned helplessness exists in the first place! How cool is that?

  6. Paul Cottman says:

    Nice post. I find that one difficulty clients have is being able to discern the difference between learned helplessness and the “ok, i get it” state. What often ends up happening is people going to extremes on the spectrum where they are either so afraid of causing learned helplessness that they don’t create any boundaries and rules or they confuse the create learned helplessness and become over-zealous about what they perceive is an “effective new training method.” They then apply that training to every aspect of their dog’s behavior. Perhaps an effort to assist client’s in recognizing the difference would be beneficial.

    Paul Cottman

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